Monthly Archives: July 2008

Lisa

Yesterday I was sad, I heard that Randy Pausch, who I first came across the week after he made his speech the last lecture in Sept of last year. He passed away of Pancreatic Cancer. It was a reminder that things do no thappent he way they should. It made me want to call my grandmothers friend who suffers from the same cancer.

I do not think I would have tackled this photography thing had I not heard that speech, right then. You ever look back and know that a moment changed you fundamentally – at your core – it changed you?

I look at meeting people at I know that Lisa as one of those people for me. Someone who changed me just by meeting her. You don’t know what you are missing if you don’t know her.

Today I mention her because she has cancer as well. we don’t know anything more – we don’t know what kind we don’t know what fight we will have to fight but I want to say out loud to the universe, we will fight this with her in what ever way she needs us to, for however long she needs us. “We” are a real breathing group of people who love her and she will not be taken with out a fight.

This is all I can say.. Lisa we are so praying for you and ready to fight with you.
lisa

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Weekend recap

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It has been a full, full time since my last post.

Have I mentioned my Bri took her first steps? four perfect little steps right to me. I’m sure I mentioned that shes been standing up since Sheba’s visit and when I told Sheba about her now walking she said she was totally taking credit for it. Bri is not really confident about the walking she still prefers to scoot across the floor, and it looks like she will be forgoing the whole crawling thing just as her sister did.

my little angel is such a old lady spirit. She and her sister are total opposites yet just alike, and such fun to watch together.

We had a relatively solid weekend. I have been working on building the photography so consistanly this weekend was a welcome relief and change as most of my building this weekend has been knowledge based, which gives me the space to be home with my husband and children. I see the sacrafice they make by helping me do this. My kids don’t exactly know how they are helping, as I try ot focus as much of my attention as won’t go wandering to my last session on them when they are awake. But bed time is way more strictly enforced as thats the time I am most free to get alot of work done. Even still nothing makes me feel more wonderful than when my kids want me to do bed time, and want me to sit for dinner. Sometimes they choose daddy, as they should. It still leaves a little pang of jealousy.  He is such a wonderful daddy I can’t blame them at all.

This weeknd also gave me a chance to turn the camera on my girls. Cammy and Bri were invited to a birthday party of another blog friend, who was and has returned to IRL friend status with the QUICKNESS. I have learned alot about myself and the thing I learned first and foremost is that I miss having real life friends. Spoken is my heart but she works 90 hours a week, and she doesn’t have kids. Shoot the only kids she even likes are mine and one of her neices. So it was so refreshing to talk to someone who is artistic, and a mom, and has some of the same concerns and desires that I do. We had so much fun talking and then hanging out at the birthday party we went out to discuss all manner of stuff again on Sunday night. I had so much fun I forgot to take a single picture.

The birthday party was a two part affair. We met up at the transportation museum in I guess that would be sort of south county sort of mid county hybrid.

But it was AWESOME.

Dude, I probably had more fun than the kids. But the kids had a great time too. Jerry came with us to the Museum. Which was awesome. Cammy thrives off of us as a family unit and its so good to flex that outside of our four walls. Besides they make me so proud. All the time. I love that I got to watch Cammy trail after her daddy as he showed her all the train cars. Shes so dainty next to his masculine air. My friend has a boy, it was his birthday and he turned two. And it was also very interesting to watch Cammy relate to a little boy and we all agreed it was probably in all of our best interest that Gabrielle was not Gabriel. She was not enthused by his boyish charm.

Gabrielle was the belle of the ball. Shes is such a good baby in general and for the first time she really liked these new people instantly. We went with the birthday boys parents and grandparents and Bri was quite happy to lounge with any of them, and she smiled at them all.

I know, major right!

Cammy got her water play on. She was amazed byt he working large pool in their back yard, and was promptly like, “Mom, we need one of those.” Althought the Cammy line of the night was:

Cammy (while spearking a bite of cake with her fork): My tummy is upset.
Jerry: Cammy you can’t have cake if your tummy is upset. (reaching for her cake)
Cammy: My tummy doesn’t hurt! (pulling her cake away)
Jerry: Cammy you just said it hurts, does it hurt or not?
Cammy: (thinking) Yes…. and NO! big smile.

She got to keep her cake.

 

more blogging to come..

 

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random internet tom foolery

So I get this chat request from a Uniformtrout.. and feelin a little bored I accept..

9:38 am  uniformtrout: Yarrr!
                               me: ?
                uniformtrout: okay …ARRRR! Avast! who be this? …ARRRR!
                               me: um – who are you? not that ARRRR isn’t right up my piratey alley
9:39 AM  uniformtrout: aye  i thought so. …ARRR!  we got botted. …ARRRRR!
                               me: botted?
               uniformtrout: it be always people wit’ fish related screen names …ARRRRRRR!   i keep gettin’ a parrot makin’ people say things like “ahoy”   or in this case …ARRR!  yarrr …ARRRRR!
                               me: its been real
                uniformtrout: Avast! okay
9:40 AM                  me: shakes head I am so gonna blog this today..

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flickr meme

I have been chatting it up with a very cool lady lately and I grabbed this meme from her blog. Thought I’d try it out..

Few notes.. I could have put a picture of Marcus Patrick with his clothes on.. but why?? I like him naked, thats sort of his appeal for me right now. Shallow but honest I know. Even WOBL’s can be a tad shallow, and he is a tad more nekkid that I expected when I viewed that image large.. but hes got great ken dolls..  :P

Heres the meme:
a. Type your answer to each of the questions below into Flickr Search.
b. Using only the first page, pick an image.
c. Copy and paste each of the URLs for the images into fd’s mosaic maker.

1. What is your first name? Raquita
2. What is your favorite food? sushi
3. What high school did you go to? riverview gardens
4. What is your favorite color? purple
5. Who is your celebrity crush? marcus patrick
6. Favorite drink? pom mojito
7. Dream vacation? hawaii
8. Favorite dessert? brownies with ice cream
9. What do you want to be when you grow up? photographer (does this mean I’m a grown up? maybe I shoulda put clown in there)
10. What do you love most in life? my family
11. One word to describe you. per the husband – ignition
12. Your Flickr name. Raquita I stopped hiding behind fake names years ago (no offense to those who use them there are very valid reasons why people do and should use them.)


1. Boudoir Sessions, 2. デパ地下寿司, 3. Evening along the Yarra, 4. Just an Orchid, 5. MARCUS PATRICK, 6. Pomegranate-raspberry mojito, 7. Botanical Gardens – Hilo, Hawaii HDR, 8. Cho Cho Cho, 9. Showtime!, 10. Latest Family Portrait, 11. We have ignition, 12. Not yo mama’s cakes

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