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Rollin wit the Homies

catchups-95 you have to do the whole arm action too - circa ‘Clueless’ 1995. This image is precisely how I hold images of my friends in my mind.

About once a month I drink an extra Caramel Mach from Starbucks, I put the kids to bed, leave the hubby to his devices and head out to a local bar to listen to a good friend DJ Enoch or KnocKock and we so lovingly dub him. If I’m feelin spry I make it to a DJ Needles session too, but usually its Enoch.

The ususal suspects are almost always there, Kelly, Jingo, CJ, but I’m there cause Spokens there, and we didn’t get to be friends when I was unattached and free, before I had babies and a husband. Before I cared if I made my 9-5. So for one night every so often I don’t.

Enoch spins all the right albums, the hummus is tasty and my friend smiles at me. It reminds me that I have a good life even life forgets.

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so many days after the first day of the rest of your life..

I’ve missed my blog.

In its original state, this was the place I could always be myself. And lately I’ve been being a “photographer” and while that is truly a kick ass part of the current Raquita Package (and will be a prominate part of the package forever, forever ever, fofevah evah!)  I miss the outlet my blog was for any of my needed rants and thats simply not okay with me.

So. My blog is undergoing a metaphysical and spiritual and physical change in the near future. Yeah that sounds major but all it really means is its a better marriage of me at this turn in my life than this last one has been.

I’m learning balance better lately. I am. I just have to execute more consistantly.  

Thanksgivig was a bit of a throwback for me - Spoken had to work so I did most of the cooking myself although my WONDERFUL husband did an awesome job of cleaning as I went so I didn’t have to worry about how my dressing got mac n cheese in it.  Jerry said my Thursday turkey was better than my Friday turkey, actually all of my relatives were like the turkey is perfect! and I’m like DUDE! I always bring the kick arse bird man!!!! Don’t be actin like my birds ain’t the shizznit!! Why I’m defending the turkeys of years gone by I don’t know.  

Anywho I’ll be posting more about Thanksgiving, as well as

-Sophia’s First Birthday
-A set of sibling sessions
-the disater that would be me trying to get the girls (ALL THREE) to sit still for christmas card pictures
-an engagement session

And other random Funky good times in my world of Awesome. With awesome sauce.

Toodles!


drive by to say this is..

my new theme song..

good good - ashanti

Which is differnt cause I’m not a big Ashanti fan, that is all.


Back on the saddle….

I was talking about being incognegro last week so IC ould get caught up - turns out it was so I could be knocked on my arse with a sinus infection. I missed work at my day job all week and didn’t do a single thing for Pinxit either, which means I am going to be doubly busy this week, I have two newborns to finish editing and get posted, four boudoirs (thanks family for showin up for a girl) a baby shower and a maternity to edit as well. In additon it is coming to my attention that it may simply be who of me to hire out finishing my website, (you know anybody?!?!)  Bri’s birthdy is in two weeks, and the St. Louis InterPlay is coming up. In addition to all that… drum roll…

Cammy had her first day of school this morning. She was so cute. Full post on that coming up real real soon. My baby is going to big girl school.

full posts coming all the way around!


a photographers truth

**saw this in my google reader it was shared by a friend, originally posted by textism,  and I thought it was SO FITTING.

Which lens is best to have on hand?
The one at home.

Which camera is best?
The model a step up from the one you just bought.

When will the right camera for you be available?
Probably next year.

When will it be affordable?
When it is obsolete.

What camera do ‘fools’ buy?
Yours.

Should you shoot RAW?
No! Shoot jpeg and get it right the first time you fucking moron.

Should you shoot jpeg?
No! Sliders and presets and curves! Shoot RAW you fucking moron.

What must you improve?
Your workflow.

Of what must you have more?
Screen real estate.

Where does no one want to be?
In front of a computer.

Where does everyone want to be?
Out shooting.

How much light is there?
Not enough.

What must the light be?
Natural.

What must the colour balance be?
Neutral.

What must the subject matter be?
Interesting.

What do adjustments make your photograph?
More interesting.

What must the background be?
Blown out.

What mustn’t the highlights be?
Blown out.

What must the shadows be?
Punchy.

What must the flash be?
Diffuse.

What else?
Soft.

Like this?
No.

Now?
No.

Now?
Just turn it off.

What’s the meaning of it all?
Self-redemption through an endless stream of pouty self-portraits on Flickr. Also weddings.


Incognegro

I’m sorry I’ve been a little slow with the posting and the pictures and all - my hits have taken a nose dive and I know thats all my fault. I’m sorry fine internets. You know I loves you right? Its totally not you, its my grand dreams of photography domination and budding photography business. The thing is internets, You know how you want to do something and you can see it in your mind as plain as the boobs on your chest nose on your face? My goal is to find the best way to make other people see what I want to do. And Thats taking a little more time than I originally thought. But when I get this where I want it to be I hope you will all be as pleased as I am.


I thought I was posting more.. apparently not

I’v got TONS of things in the hopper, I’m writing wedding proposals, and working on finding a videographer for a new idea, I have to finish the design for my uniform shirts, Prep for this weekends Boudoir sessions, I also have an additional materinty and two newborns, and a three month old baby to shoot in the near future.  Not to mention seminars to attend, a few networking things to attend, and I was trying to find away to donate my time in a way that is beneficial to some cause and allows me to enjoy the process - still working on that. I’ve got the idea I just need to find the right group, find the right fit. I am also working on catching up with the bloggers guild, (sorry I am so spaz guys) finishing my marketing information, finish updating the site as well, well you get the idea.

Funny thing is as much as I have on my plate, (don’t even get me started on Camm starting school in two weeks,) everything is falling right in place the only thing that has truly slipped has been the blog. I am truly sorry for my absence. I am working on getting caught up enough tha I can tell you all the cute stories that are still happening to me every day but today is not the day, this whole week is looking pretty skeet on time. Maybe I’ll get caught up while I am on my way to Chicago.

A girl can hope.

In the mean time, know that I am always thinking wonderfully happy thoughts for you. I’ll catch you in a few days guys!


Busy little Beaver

It has been a busy time in the world of Henderson dear Internets.

Cammy and I went to Grants Farm with her classmates. My little ball of wonder fed an elephant! My kid is just so awesome. Some days I am just in awe of the people they are. Especially Cammy. She is just so full of curiousity, and is so happy. Just a well of good tidings. She is so full of confidence and is not afraid to say what she thinks and how she feels. I know her life is a work in progress but somedays I am proud of hte job our support system has done wth her as a person, and who we have all helped her become.
She went to an great birthday party last week it was just four girls and the birthday girl, and it was held so that at the end of the day so there was enough time for bath and a story then it was bed time - GENIUS! I tell you!
Bri has beena little sick lately - just a tad under the weather. The occasional fever, mostly just sluggish and not able to keep many solids down (fun times!) but all in all she has bounced back well. She’s taken to the outside and wants to spend allof her time outside - which is a mixed blessing as my kids both love being outdoor but htey are both like candy for mosquitos. So we are trying to work out a less chemically HARSH was to fight that battle.

Jerry and I went to dinner with our friends again tyesterday. Its downtown restaraunt week which we like to use to try new places, I think we found a serious contender for best place to take a group of people who you love and don’t mind sharing a fork with.

Mosaic.

It was so good it gets its own paragraph break. We tried almost everything on the menu. Thing that left a lasting impression, the Sea Bass, the Kabob, the lacquered Chicken (we had to order anything that made us think you were ordering food from HomeDepot.) It was Mojito special night and we ordered the Watermelon Mojito (cause how could we not?) and the blueberry Mojitos were AWESOME. The thing I like most about our life right now is that Jerry and I have a blended family that is truly blended. My friends and family adore his and vice versa. I love that we don’t go out with his friends on Tuesday and my friends on Thursday. That we can call them all and they are excited to get together. We had very interesting table converstaion. We watched the olympics on a 45 in flat screen near our table we made pleanty of comments about the clear violation by china if they think anybody is buying that someof those girls are 16. And while I don’t want to turn tape recorder some of the classic lines of the night were…

  • Give me some of that sweet gravy! (it was soup)
  • Oh.. you see how that gymnast is lookin at that other chick? Shes plugged into the Hatrix.
  • (from a vegetarian) I really do remember meat! (us to the vegetarian) that meat you didn’t eat? it was awesome.
  • Seriously? You can get a pole in a box? Yes, a stripper pole in a box, yes over at … they sell em, I bought one as a gift..

It was the kind of night that you think the stars have to be aligned to have happen but we have these kinds of good times everytime wehang out with our friends, so I can only count myself as extrememly blessed to have them in my life.

In photography news the “Its Intimate” portion of my work, is truly coming along. We will hopefully formally launch in the next few weeks. I am about to announce holiday session specials for cards and I am looking for Senior ambassadors, so if you know any High School Juniors who are interested in getting a great deal on their senior session please feel free to forward my information to them.   

Funny thing is I have gotten way more interest from my portrait sessions than I thought that I would. And I sincerely thank you for that. I appreciate all that you do and how forgiving you all have been as I work the kinks out of my process. Your feed back has been invaluable - good and bad, I want to hear it all, and I thank you for taking the time to tell me what you honestly think.  I am attending a seminar that I am hoping to learn more about this side of the art and will hopefully make for better experices for both you and I.

I’ll be posting more sessions in the near future, I am sort of working on finishing some of the other elements of the site and that has taken priority, so bear with me more stuff is coming soon!


Better late than never

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Dear Dear internets its been a long day.

*just a note that my nifty little feature I’ve been trying to use at the bottom of my posts should now work - click a picture and tell me if it expands the image for you

I stayed home from work today and got to be with little Miss Bri. Who was STOKED by this turn of events. She kept coming to check like - “hey, you’re still here! Sweet!” then she would walk off to find something else to get into. Did you catch that? my little girl is WALKING ALL OVER THE PLACE! its barely been a week since she took her first step and shes just flying all over the place. She likes to hold a finger still, mostly because she likes to be holding on to you. Shes the most independent dependent person I’ve ever seen.

We went to church Wed. after noon, just because. More because lately I’ve needed to go for me. my husband gets my restless spirit and has been very understanding and open to attending where ever i want to go. I expect I’ll probably try and make bible study this week as well. We’ll see. He’s been very concerned about me as of late and I’ve tried to explain that the first year of any business is a little nerve racking.

All in all I have such little room to be nerve racked, my biggest complaint - things are not moving at HYPER SPACE drive speed. YET.

And that’s a good thing - I’m using this time to get my kids acclimated to longer stretches of me being home and doing the mom thing and then the periodic two or three day stretches where I have a shoot every day during what used to be us time. I’m also making a point of spending more time with the family as individuals. Cammy and I spend a little more time together, I encourage her to help with dinner even if it will cause things to hit the table a little later than planned. I have recently been reminded that over planning in general is probably not the best option for us a family. We have always worked better as a shifting unit. Now if I could just earn enough for somebody to come and do our laundry, I think that is my success point. When i can comfortably say I can afford for somebody to come and do our laundry I’ve done what I need to do, in the mean time I think i may take a page from a friends book and just BUY new clothes. Seems so much easier somehow.

morning-cammy Cammy is such a teenager stuck in the body of a four year old. What pray tell do you do with such a creature? I am not the mom to her I want to be. And I am working on that. Cammy is the kind of kid who should be in all manner of extra circular activities. This fall that is a MAJOR goal of mine. To find the things she would like to get into and well, get her into them. I think we are gonna try a sport, probably dance and swimming, and an art, probably music. We have a piano, she likes to play it. Maybe we should nurture that.

Husband isn’t blogging enough for anything I say about him to be a spoiler over on his blog. I expect alot of his peeps read here cause otherwise you think we’ve fallen off the face of the earth. He’s been workin up a good little storm. He gets along with his coworkers from what I can tell. Its hard not to like Jerry though, you sorta gotta work on that. He’s taken to role playing on line, which I think he enjoys it gives him creative ideas for his writing. So i’m hoping to encourage his writing more. We are both starting to work out more, although since Jerry is a man - his efforts are visible WAY faster than anything I could ever, ever hope for. But we are well, he is a joy to love.  Some days are more interesting than other but man, he does make them colorful.

We went to dinner with our grown up friends the other day. Once a month we make a point to have dinner - not date night mind you but dinner with adults away from the kids. Date night is great and all but it takes more than one night a month to keep things movin around these parts. So once a month we go to dinner with our grown up friends who don’t have kids. Some times its a little more financially taxing cause the night starts off with you 25-40 dollars in the whole from paying a sitter and your single friends they don’t quite get that. Ours are getting better though we had a FANNY-tastic time. Our chosen location was Vin de Set in South City.

We’ve eaten at its sister restaurant on many an occasion but this was our first time there. Things I would recommend, the cheese plate was excellent. Our waiter made perfect recommendations. I had the duck which was beautifully prepared. Funny cause i love ducks in general, it seems odd to me that I order duck when ever I can.

three different people ordered the pork tenderloin special and while it was good, the tender loin that Adam order WAS OFF THE CHAIN. Literally, they easily must have laid a chain next to the plate to prove the point it was so good.  i don’t know if the company made the food better but MAN, we had such a good time. It couldn’t have hurt the meal that the company was awesome. Some of the pictures below are my favorite ever of my friends, yes they aren’t PERFECT but they capture them perfectly.

Highslide JSNow speaking of Perfect I am posting a new session this weekend I had the joy of photographing MommyMae and her beautiful family. She is the most calm beautiful pregnant person I have ever met. I was like DUDE- if it had been like that for Bri we might be having another one! Then reality SMACKED me across the face for saying such a thing. She has three beautiful kids including twin girls who are such genuine characters. I’m looking forward to posting those images soon.
Also we have a little giveaway, i think we’ll do that on Monday so do keep on the look out for that. It is Photography related as it should be over here.

The next few weeks are gonna be a doozy I have two seminars, a field trip with Cammy, TWO additional maternity shoots and This months boudoir shoot!!! I am soooo excited. If you are a bride reading this you get a lovely little discount if you book this particular session. If you are interested in booking a session during my marathon boudoir session This Aug 23rd and 24th please shoot me an email at Pinxit photo at gmail dot com for information.

Why not? is a perfectly good life strategy! Be peaceful be photographed..

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random internet tom foolery

So I get this chat request from a Uniformtrout.. and feelin a little bored I accept..

9:38 am  uniformtrout: Yarrr!
                               me: ?
                uniformtrout: okay …ARRRR! Avast! who be this? …ARRRR!
                               me: um - who are you? not that ARRRR isn’t right up my piratey alley
9:39 AM  uniformtrout: aye  i thought so. …ARRR!  we got botted. …ARRRRR!
                               me: botted?
               uniformtrout: it be always people wit’ fish related screen names …ARRRRRRR!   i keep gettin’ a parrot makin’ people say things like “ahoy”   or in this case …ARRR!  yarrr …ARRRRR!
                               me: its been real
                uniformtrout: Avast! okay
9:40 AM                  me: shakes head I am so gonna blog this today..


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